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"Interview
skills and communication skills are not just
about speech techniques one follows. Up to 60%
of the impression that you make is through your
body language. Whatever the reality behind this
statement, it is undoubtable that the way you
dress and behave at an interview will strongly
influence the person who is looking at you, even
if it is subconscious."
To make a
strong impression, there are a number of
accepted rules that you need to reflect upon and
adopt:
CHOOSE
A GOOD POSITION : In an interview, you will
normally be directed to a specific seat.
However, interviews can often be conducted in
oversized environments. In such a situation,
make sure that you choose a seat which enables
you to see everyone involved without having to
rotate your head exaggeratedly.
RIGHT
POSTURE : Plant both feet onto the ground so
that you remain stable and put your hands on the
table. Keep yourself upright, with a slight
slant forward and your shoulders relaxed.
DON'T
BE AFRAID TO "OWN THE SPACE”: It is okay to
stand or sit with your legs slightly apart, and
in fact, it is a sign of confidence.
LIMIT YOUR HANDS AND ARMS MOVEMENT: It is
perfectly okay to move your arms and hands
around, and if that is the way that you normally
behave then don't try to become someone else.
Your personality and enthusiasm are as important
as everything else.
SMILE :
A nervous smile is better than no smile at all.
No one wants to recruit a grumpy person or
someone who looks like they are not enjoying
themselves. Smile lightly also when you are
being introduced to each member of your panel.
This is important to create a rapport.
MAINTAIN
EYE CONTACT : If you do not make an eye
contact, you will come across as evasive and
insecure.
BEWARE
OF THE PROPS : If you have a pen with you,
avoid fiddling with it. Similarly, if they offer
you tea or coffee etc., make sure that you can
cope with it.
MIRROR
THE INTERVIEWER'S BEHAVIOUR : Mirroring
(i.e. acting similarly) to someone is an
indication that there is a connection. It
generally happens normally, but you may be able
to influence it too, if only to give the
interviewer that impression.
AND
RELAX... : At the end of the day, you
can't spend all your energy focusing on body
language. There is no point having a brilliant
body language if you are talking rubbish. Bear in
mind that body language is a reflection of your
level of confidence.
- Ashish
Soam
MBA III |